Urban nightlife offers the opportunity for people to get together with friends and family to socialise and enjoy themselves. But unfortunately, sometimes people may experience abuse – whether it’s physical, verbal, sexual or emotional. It’s important to recognise the signs of abuse so you can spot it and respond appropriately to protect yourself and others. Here, we look at different examples of abuse, what to do if you experience it and how we can make venues safer.
What types of abuse may people encounter while out?
Sadly, there are many different types of abuse that people may encounter on an evening out. This includes:
- Physical contact: Unwanted touching or groping, which may occur in crowded spaces like dance floors.
- Aggressive behaviour: Instances of fighting, pushing or threatening gestures.
- Intimidation and harassment: Persistent unwanted attention, such as following someone or making them feel unsafe.
- Verbal abuse: Insults, threats or derogatory comments aimed at belittling or controlling someone.
What to do if you experience abuse
If you find yourself in an abusive situation, there are several things you can do:
- Remove yourself from the situation: If possible, calmly leave the area and seek a safer environment.
- Seek help: Approach a trusted friend, venue staff or security personnel for assistance.
The Ask for Angela initiative is “a national scheme that helps anyone who is feeling vulnerable on a night out to get the support they need”. Bars and other venues offer this – simply go to a member of staff and ask for Angela, and they will respond appropriately and discreetly.
In an emergency, contact the police on 999.
- Report the incident: If you want to report the incident after it’s happened, contact the police. You can do this by going to your local station or calling the non-emergency number, 101. You can get support in your local area as well as reach out to organisations such as Victim Support or Rape Crisis England & Wales.
- Consider legal action: If you wish to seek justice for what you’ve experienced, you may be able to pursue legal redress through abuse claims. Experienced legal professionals will be able to provide guidance on this process and let you know if you’re entitled to compensation.
How you can help make nightlife spaces safer
Creating safer spaces is a responsibility that everyone shares. One of the most important things you can do is look out for others.
If you notice someone seems uncomfortable or in distress, check in with them if possible. A simple gesture of asking if they’re okay can make a significant difference in ensuring they feel safe.
You can also alert staff or security so they can address the situation. Your quick action can help to prevent further harm to the individual and create a safer environment for everyone in the venue.
Also, encourage your friends and family to look out for others and speak out against inappropriate behaviour.
By fostering a culture of respect and accountability, we can all contribute to making nightlife spaces more enjoyable and secure for everyone.
Experiencing abuse is extremely distressing. If it happens, remember you’re not alone – there are people and organisations ready to support you, so don’t hesitate to seek help.